I dont know Festus dear. She was able to hear his voice and it hurt so much she cried, she hasnt seen or heard the other one.
Memories of loved ones can be both a blessing and a curse. I recently experienced this irl and chose the blessing. I remember all the good and do things that would honor the memories. Im sure if you and the Sylvan family work together as families should your memories can become plesant and give happiness and no longer fill your heart with sadness. Look to your family for comfort and the loss can become bearable. I promise you this. If you stay alone in your sadness you shall be destroyed.